“a form of sexual desire in which gratification is linked to an abnormal degree to a particular object, an item of clothing, part of the body, etc.” (Google Dictionary).
Fetish is a big part of the BDSM community but not just, Some fetishes can be done regardless of BDSM activity. I used to see people got furious because they get affected with a certain Fetish while others relate it immediately to the BDSM world.
That is why I have dedicated to the “Sexual Fetish” ( = actually means “Paraphilias”) a section of its own. The next list is from Wikipedia, you will notice that some ‘Paraphilias’ cross with the BDSM section and the rest are standalone.
Abasiophilia: People with impaired mobility
Acrotomophilia: People with amputations
Agalmatophilia: Statues, mannequins and immobility
Algolagnia: Pain, particularly involving an erogenous zone; differs from masochism as there is a biologically different interpretation of the sensation rather than a subjective interpretation
Andromimetophilia: Trans men
Anililagnia: Attraction by young men to older women
Anthropophagolagnia: Raping and then cannibalizing another person.
Anthropophagy: Ingesting human flesh
Apotemnophilia: Being an amputee
Asphyxiophilia: Being asphyxiated or strangled
Attraction to disability: People with one or more physical disabilities.
Autagonistophilia: Being on stage or on camera
Autassassinophilia: Being in life-threatening situations
Autoerotic asphyxiation: Self-induced asphyxiation, sometimes to the point of near unconsciousness
Autogynephilia: Sexual arousal of a biological male in response to the image of himself as female.
Auto-haemofetishism: Bleeding oneself (does not involve ingestion of blood). Type of autovampirism.
Autonepiophilia: The image of one’s self in the form of an infant.
Autopedophilia: The image of one’s self in the form of a child.
Autoplushophilia: The image of one’s self in the form of a plush or anthropomorphized animal.
Autovampirism/Vampirism: The image of one’s self in the form of a vampire. Involves ingesting or seeing one’s own blood.
Autozoophilia: The image of one’s self in the form of an animal or anthropomorphized animal.
Biastophilia/Raptophilia: Raping a person, possibly consensual rape fantasy.
Chremastistophilia: Being robbed or held up
Chronophilia: Partners of a widely differing chronological age
Coprophilia: Feces; also known as scat, scatophilia or fecophilia
Dacryphilia: Tears or crying
Diaper fetishism: Diapers; considerable overlap with paraphilic infantilism
Erotic asphyxiation: Asphyxia of oneself or others
Erotophonophilia: Murder, often of strangers (also known as dacnolagnomania).
Exhibitionism: Exposing one’s genitals to unsuspecting and nonconsenting others
Feederism: Eating, feeding, and weight gain.
Formicophilia: Being crawled on by insects
Forniphilia: Turning a human being into a piece of furniture
Frotteurism: Rubbing against a non-consenting person
Gerontophilia: Elderly people
Gynandromorphophilia/Gynemimetophilia: Transsexual or transgender women
Hematolagnia: Drinking or looking at blood
Heterophilia: Idealization of heterosexuality and/or people who are “straight-acting,” especially by non-heterosexual people.
Homeovestism – Wearing clothing emblematic of one’s own sex
Hoplophilia: Firearms, guns
Hybristophilia: Criminals, particularly for cruel or outrageous crimes
Infantophilia: Pedophilia with a focus on children less than five years old, a recently suggested term that is not in general use
Kleptophilia: Stealing; also known as kleptolagnia
Klismaphilia: Enemas, arousal and enjoyment in receiving, administering, or both
Lactophilia: Breast milk
Liquidophilia: Immersing genitals in liquids
Macrophilia: Giant beings; the imagined growth of beings
Mazophilia: Highly atypical sexual interest focused on female breasts.
Masochism: Suffering or humiliation; being beaten, bound or otherwise abused
Mechanophilia: Cars or other machines; also “mechaphilia.”
Morphophilia: Particular body shapes or sizes
Mysophilia: Dirtiness, soiled or decaying things
Narratophilia: Obscene words
Objectophilia: Specific inanimate objects
Oculophilia: Eyes and activities directly relating to and/or involving the eyes. Voyeurism does not meet classification for this term.
Olfactophilia: Smells and odors emanating from the body, especially the sexual areas.
Omorashi: Arousal from having a full bladder and/or wetting oneself, or from seeing someone else experiencing a full bladder and/or wetting themselves
Paraphilic infantilism: Dressing or being treated like a baby, also known as autonepiophilia or “adult baby syndrome”; considerable overlap with diaper fetishism
Partialism: Specific, non-genital body parts
Pedophilia: Prepubescent children, also spelled paedophilia; often confused with hebephilia, ephebophilia, and pederasty
Peodeiktophilia: Exposing one’s penis
Pedovestism: Dressing like a child
Pictophilia: Pornography or erotic art, particularly pictures
Piquerism: Piercing the flesh of another person, most commonly by stabbing or cutting the body with sharp objects
Plushophilia: Stuffed toy animals (Plushies).
Pygophilia: Buttocks, as in a highly atypical sexual interest focused on the buttocks.
Salirophilia: Soiling or dirtying others
Sexual fetishism: Nonliving objects
Sexual sadism: Inflicting pain on others
Somnophilia: Sleeping or unconscious people
Sthenolagnia: Muscles and displays of strength
Stigmatophilia: Body piercings and tattoos
Symphorophilia: Witnessing or staging disasters such as car accidents
Telephone scatologia: Obscene phone calls, particularly to strangers; also known as telephonicophilia and scatophilia
Teratophilia: Deformed or monstrous people
Toucherism: Touching an unsuspecting, non-consenting person with the hand
Transvestic fetishism: Wearing clothes associated with the opposite sex; also known as transvestism
Transvestophilia: A transvestite sexual partner
Troilism:Cuckoldism, watching one’s partner have sex with someone else, possibly without the third party’s knowledge
Urolagnia:Urination, particularly in public, on others, and/or being urinated on. Also referred to as “water sports”
Vorarephilia:The idea of one person or creature eating or being eaten by another; usually swallowed whole, in one piece; also known as vore
Voyeurism:Watching others while naked or having sex, generally without their knowledge; also known as scopophilia or scoptophilia
Wet and messy fetishism:Messy situations, including, but not limited to, being pied, gunged or covered in mud
Zoosadism:Inflicting pain on or seeing animals in pain