This community has tough rules and like in most history slavery, slaves tend to come and go (or at least most dominants think so). Are they expendable? YES, they are! Every slave knows it’s position and the senior ones even know they can be left behind and

I call it “The journey” because it is what it is. Every sub/slave/controlled person thinks that he/she is the only one (person) who’s doing the journey. Even if he/she became aware of the fact that the “Controller” (Master/Sir/Mistress/Madam) does his/her own “campaign” (sometimes physically and sometimes mentally), he/she still tend

Midlife is a big term but how do we know if we are in the Midlife of our BDSM? I have been doing BDSM for 10 years and I am happy to the point I don’t want it to end, but what if it

Ugh, How should I start this writing? People always ask me: “What are your standards ?”. We start our life as anonymous, that’s how to world sees us (babies), and within a short period, we start the process

We all know what BDSM stands for, aren’t we? BDSM – Bondage & Discipline / Domination & Submission / Sadism & Masochism. But what is really BDSM? Let me start with an introduction to my question: I Usually do not intend to tell