Ugh, How should I start this writing?

People always ask me: “What are your standards ?”.
We start our life as anonymous, that’s how to world sees us (babies), and within a short period, we start the process of “farming”. We all go through an environmental process (home/friends/Internet/school…) and in the end we have standards. Those standards are judgmental standards and “they say” how the world around us should be.
Yes, we all have/had these characters, for example, some of us think the other side should have specific body/hair/eyes type.
It’s normal, after all, we were raised like that.
Is it normal?
No, it’s not normal.

“What are your standards?” – they ask.
“Human” – I answer.
They respond quickly (in shock): “We are all humans!”.
Me: “That’s why we all deserve a chance in life, even in BDSM”.

“You see if a slave/sub will appreciate you (as a Master) and your ways (as a teacher) he/she will follow you. But it’s a great power, you should always use it for the better of your student (in the long term). For example: I had an anorexic slave and she understood I want her to be healthy, so she decided to get fatter, I didn’t force her or talked about it, I believe she understood that I want her to stay close to me for a long period of time and if she will die it won’t help the cause.
On the other hand, I had a fat slave and she understood her body is getting damaged because of bad eating habits. Truly one day she decided to change habits and eat better.
You see, everybody deserves a chance”.

– They: “Ok, but still you must have boundaries”.
– Me: “My boundaries are for other types of conversation, but if you want acceptance limits I will phrase it like this:
1. Human
2. Brain
3. Power of will.”

I always say: “We all can change for the better!”