I call it "The journey" because it is what it is. Every sub/slave/controlled person thinks that he/she is the only one (person) who's doing the journey. Even if he/she became aware of the fact that…

Midlife is a big term but how do we know if we are in the Midlife of our BDSM? I have been doing BDSM for 10 years and I am happy to the point I…